One day, during a seminar, the professor asked our class:

“What has been the most important thing you’ve learned in college?”  

The guy next to me stood up and said:

“It’s the people. The friends I’ve made, and the relationships I’ve had here.”

I thought to myself: What a dumbass! Learning about science, engineering, and technology is way more important than having a good time and making friends in college!” 

… Oops.  That was a mistake.

Because I’ve learned since then that people and authentic relationships are everything.

No amount of technology, money, or scientific know-how is more important than a small group of people working together toward a common goal.    

And I was reminded of that recently, after reading Lucy Pearson’s article:

My Friend Left Me The Most Powerful Words of Advice Right Before She Died 

Those words of advice are:

“Try not to place too much importance on material things,” Becs wrote. “You will see one day that they are not important. Love yourself and your family and friends. This is important. ALWAYS allow time for them. Take every opportunity you can, no going back. Make decisions from the heart.”

Lucy’s friend, Bec’s, advice was right on the money.

She is 100% correct.  

Because at the end of the day, true joy and happiness comes from being connected to, being around, and working with people.

Not machines (including computers), science, or cutting edge technology.   

My college classmate was right – back in 1981! 

It has taken me a while to learn that myself, but I have.

Why People Matter More Than Technology: Life Advice

Lucy Pearson’s excellent article is attached below.

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